ok so just wanted to share my findings:
prycej, I changed the port forward to 9000 and it worked. The setup is with Inherited Permissions and SSL (although Chrome seems to want to reject).
So it appears that my router was having an issue port forwarding for some reason (I have the ability to assign both an external and private port but I guess my router was not translating correctly).
gonna mess with some additional settings and see what happens but appreciate the comments.
also, anyone know what the disadvantages of double-natting? i think i read that it slows down connection speeds but I dont really see that now that I am not double NAT-ed. port forwarding was workin for other applications so really wondering what i'm gaining (or losing).